Giving emotional value is a topic.
Taking family education as an example today. Is it difficult to be a parent who provides emotional value?
Parents’ love for their children is the deepest, most sincere, and purest love in the world. This love has been with every stage of growth since its birth, until it reaches home and business, it remains consistent and never diminishes. Parents love their children, it is true, but not all parents can provide emotional value to their children. Today, let’s list the shadows in the light of parents’ love for their children.
The first category, the most common
Junior high school student Xiaoya tried hard to prepare for the city painting competition, but unexpectedly failed. After returning home, she hid in her room and cried.
Mom rushed into the room and said, “Why are you crying? I told you all day drawing these useless things! You watched cartoons before the competition, so you shouldn’t have been selected! Next door Xiaoming practiced piano every day and won an award, how about you
Dad patched up the knife and said, “I can’t handle this setback. What should I do when I enter society in the future? I don’t think you’re cut out for this
The second type, second strike
Elementary school boy Hao Hao was robbed of his pocket money by his senior classmates and pushed over, causing abrasions. He went home to tell his parents.
Father frowned and said, “Why are you so cowardly? If someone steals you, they’ll give it to you. It’s really embarrassing for me
My mother complained during the wound examination, “You must have provoked them first! How many times have I told you not to cause trouble? Now it’s okay, my clothes are also torn
The third type is sarcasm and ridicule
High school girl Xiaoyu has a crush on her class monitor and writes her thoughts in her diary. After peeking at her diary, my mother joked in public during a family dinner.
Mom smiled and said to her relatives, “Xiaoyu writes a diary every day and fantasizes about being the class monitor! Is that why her grades are declining
Dad chimed in and said, “Does the class monitor like you? Let’s talk about getting into the top ten first
The fourth category is to reconcile old accounts
Xiaocheng broke his grandfather’s antique vase, apologized proactively, and proposed compensation for his work.
Mom screamed, “It’s you again! Last time I lost my phone, last time I broke my computer! You’re just a troublemaker
Dad sneered, “Compensation? What are you doing with that little money you worked for? If I had known you were so spendthrift, I shouldn’t have had you in the first place
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I believe every family has staged this plot, not to provide timely assistance, but to add insult to injury. When children fall into a low point, parents only see “stains”. But I have to say that at this point, the child is already very embarrassed and uncomfortable, because they have also suffered a lot of pressure due to their own mistakes and mistakes. He just needs a little comfort. Parents are not the ones standing opposite their children, but on their shoulders.
The phrase ‘May every child be treated with tenderness’ is not just words, but an action.