The standard for measuring the quality of a relationship – to make each other a better version of themselves

Human beings are social animals, living in various relationships. There are many standards to measure the quality of a relationship, and one of them is very concise and clear: a good relationship makes each other become better versions of themselves.Since it is a mutual achievement, the beneficiaries of this relationship are not one-sided, but mutual. … Read more

Rationalization is a fig leaf

Rationalization is a psychological defense mechanism that refers to the process of collecting reasons that meet one’s inner needs and providing a reasonable explanation for one’s behavior when an individual’s motivation has not been realized or their behavior does not conform to social norms, in order to conceal one’s mistakes, alleviate anxiety and pain, and … Read more

Repeated problem – partner conflict

She came for the conflict between husband and wife. The wife thinks her husband is having an affair, but the husband refuses to admit it. At home, after arguing about divorce, I tried to solve the problem through psychological counseling when I had no choice. Gege said that we are now at odds with each … Read more

Through Children, Know Yourself

Psychologically speaking, if there is unconditional love in this world, it must be a child’s love for their parents. Raising children is a self-healing process for parents. Is it true? When did parents experience the joy of their child’s birth … fear, utilitarianism, stubbornness, cowardice The requirements for children are increasing day by day, such … Read more