If someone listens to you, doesn’t judge you, doesn’t worry about you, and doesn’t want to change you, how wonderful it would be! “- American psychologist Carl Rogers This short sentence expresses the most intuitive difference between good listening and bad listening. A good listener, first of all, does not make judgments about the listener, … Read more
A square table, two people taking advantage of one corner of the table, three dishes, the man drinking drinks, the woman silently eating and drinking. When I was paying the bill, I couldn’t help but ask, it turned out to be a mother and son. My mother spoke straightforwardly, ‘This is my eldest son, who … Read more
“Mother and daughter from East Asia” has been a hot topic in recent years. In East Asian societies, the relationship between mothers and daughters seems particularly complex. They love each other but always hurt one another. Daughters from East Asia often say, “When I grow up, I don’t want to be like you.” This might … Read more
Everyone plays with their phones. Actually, everyone’s content pushed is different. Why is that? In psychology, this is called ‘cognitive bias’. If you are in a bad mood, your phone will push you bad news; If you like food, it will push you food We have all entered the information network of ‘One Leaf Blinds … Read more
In life, each of us yearns to be seen. Whether it’s emotional distress, work pressure, or friction in life, I hope someone can see and understand it. And many people see ‘being seen’ as a pursuit. Of course, being seen, encouraged, supported, and understood are basic human needs. I remember the lyrics say, ‘Take one … Read more